end of the WEEK?

SHE SAYS;

"Sunday is considered the first day of the week in some countries.

Today many countries such as Singapore regard
Sunday as the seventh day,

at least in the working week and the civil week."

I am just happy that TODAY is SUNDAY :)
I love my weekends!
There's just too many things to do from Monday to Friday.

The mad rush to complete assignments, meeting clients and what-have-yous.

Also another reason why I love my weekends is that I get to spend time with my
favourite beloved, Sayang :)
Quality time. PRICELESS.

After so many weeks of working on the "EVENT"...hehehe..
which we will reveal soon, ;)
I'm finally able to breathe easy.... :)
Alhamdulilah.

And to have my bf, assisting me from start to the end,
admidst all the tornado and tsunami...haha..
I, sayang you la, Habib Mansoor :)

Well, I had fun yesterday.
Macam lama tak pergi dating..hehe..asyik go out together coz of work :s
So yesterday, we watched AVATAR...like FINALLY!!
Then on the way back, right outside The Cathay,
we saw the Thaipusam festival.
All these will try to blog soon...it's Sunday, malas nak blog panjang2 :p

Right now, I'm waiting for my sayang to come over so that we can go
and have a dip in the pool!
I miss SWIMMING!!!
So today, we shall swim coz running is tiring...haha..

BUT
before I leave, here's something I curik from HERE!
Yeah ppl, I do bloghop and read other blogger's entries...it's only polite
since you guys do bother to come visit mine and drop a line or two in my shoutbox :)
So if you come visit, drop me a line, be assured that I'll go over n looksee2
what's interesting in urs :)

In the meantime, enjoy this clip...some reporter notty2 touchy2 Beckham.
Yeah!
David Beckham ...haha...
ENJOY!

Breakfast...

SHE SAYS;

"Did you know that hunger can cause mood swings and irritability?

 So can running on empty.

Your body is lacking something.

This affects your whole system.

People who do eat breakfast tend to be much less irritable than those who do not. ;p

They tend to be in a better mood. :D

No one around you wants you to be irritable.

No one likes it when people have mood swing.

DO yourself and those around you a favor each day, eat breakfast... " :)

So that's what I did this morning.

Yeah, Saturday morning :)

I woke my niece up and promised her waffles

with butter melting and maple syrup dripping....breakfast at KFC.

Yeah, my reliable, darling niece woke up instantly.

And off we go to....Hougang Mall...hehe..

But of course, once we reached the Mall, the little missy's got other plans.

Eyes wide open when she saw the golden ARCHES..arrghh...

Time: 7.40am

McDonalds = OPEN

KFC = CLOSED!!!

WHAT?!!!
Ok ok...KFC is only open at 8am.

So what does this aunt does?

She lets her baby girl have her hot cakes - HAPPY meal, FIRST,

while she waits patiently for KFC to open :)

8.00am!!!

...heh..my waffles and scrambled egg..yum yum!!...

.....the delicious maple syrup...

...and here's my baby girl, with her eggtart :)

She says, SEDAP!!!

It's 11am now :)

Have u had ur breakfast, yet??

…..abovenbeyond….

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pweetyskies….

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Achtung!

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kursi or kerusi?
Airasia??

A NEW Game for Bloggers, BackLink to Me :)

Hi All!!

Here's a new blog game that we all can play. It is called BackLink To Me. This new and fun blog game that we all can play, will help us increase our backlinks. Backlinks, as we all know, is the foundation to a successful or increased Google PageRank. If you want to increase your Google PageRank, you have to increase the number of backlinks to your site and almost as importantly, your secondary or (deep linked) pages. Backlinks are a collection of other pages on the Net that link back to your site or page within your site. Playing the new blog game, BackLink To Me will help you increase the number of sites that link to your site. So here goes;

Hello! My Name Is hesheloves. My website is at http://hesheloves.blogspot.com/. I have a BackLink to inAm's Blog and Sizlopedia . Here is how the game works:

1. Create a new post and title it, New Blog Game – BackLink To Me.

2. Copy my entire post and paste it into your new post.

3. Change my name to your name.

4. Change my website address to your website address

5. Change the name of the person I have a backlink to my name! ( Change inAm's Blog link to He Says, She Says... link of THIS post to make a connected chain of blogs)

6. Link my name back to the url of this post!

By participating in this blog game your site and one deep link page within your site will be a link in a huge chain of blogs that are all connected together. Google bots visit our sites daily (not sure if you knew that). By keeping our chain of links all together in a continuously growing circuit, we gain and increase a united linking strength. I want those Google Bots to visit all of our pages so that we all can have an improved Google PageRank.

If you decide to play the new blog game, please remember to link directly to THIS post, not my home page which is(http://hesheloves.blogspot.com/) . I already have a link to that here on this post.

Please write a quick comment here on this post to let me know you are playing! That way I can keep track.

Have Fun!

- He & She :)

Up..up…and awayyyy….

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Interesting vids to share!

SHE SAYS;

Got this from HERE, a fellow blogger....

Very funny, thought I should share! :D

TRAFFIC DIGGER....

SHE SAYS;

Here's to those asking for the link to the Traffic Digger. :)

Click below, ok?

Have you guys heard of trafficdigger??
Trafficdigger is like multilevel marketing.
Just that we've all know abt multilevel marketing such as topup,vemma and many more.
But what's interesting abt trafficdigger is that it'll help us to increase our traffic.
More traffic, more income for us all :).

The interesting part is the more we promote, the more downline we'll get.
Thus, MORE traffic and hopefully readership = more $ thru blogging....

Best part is, it's FREE!

Click here  here to find out more.

Good Luck!! :)

The journey…

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Fair arguements?

SHE SAYS;

Most couples argue at some point and

many will agree that it can be a positive thing.

But how you argue and what you argue about could make the difference.

Question?

How does one know which arguments

are important and will help strengthen a relationship?

A lot of couples fight some.

Some couples fight a lot. :p

 But almost all couples fight over the same things which are

trust, money and how much time the two of them spend together.

Well, we do. :s

Problem is, most of us wind up having these same arguments over and over again.

It gets tiring over time but that’s because
these issues are hot buttons for almost everyone,

pure stressors that speak to our sense of love and fairness.

But soon you'll discover that, seldom are these issues really resolved.

We keep going back to the same problems...heh...

Just like some celebs keeps go back to rehab- lots of emotional turmoil,
but little actual progress. :p

 Personally, I myself am trying to find something different to argue about.

hehe...somehow the above statement sounds a lil off...

but if I need to argue about something,

it'll be an argument that is really worth having..haha

Coz there are arguements that are worth having.

Arguments that will strengthen our relationship and
increase our overall happiness....lol...

Honestly, to me, it's not about who wins in an arguement.

It's about listening to each other.

Talk is talk, anyone can talk.

But arguements are when passionate couple who have

a lil disagreement and that's where arguements comes in.

We both are learning to argue 'quietly'.

After more than 7 years being together,

we have tried and gone thru different styles of arguements...heh..

Now, we listen hard to the 'key words' conveyed in the arguement.

Decipher the content, understand the message

before making an opinion before rebutting...haha..dah mcm debate!

Anyways, how do you and your partner argue, and how do you both resolve it?

ps. Darling, please do not argue with me NEXT WEEK! If we MUST, let ME win??!! :)

A New Beginning…To the future, never forgetting the past.

I realised that we talk too much :p

So for somedays that we don't talk, we'll let some pics do the talking?

Can? :)

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The FIRST EVER MALAY WEDDING PREPARATION WORKSHOP!

SHE SAYS;

Urusanpengantin.com is conducting
THE FIRST EVER MALAY WEDDING WORKSHOP!!

A WEDDING:behind the scenes.

There's goodie bags, gifts and vouchers...who knows it'll be beneficial to bride and groom to be;

both the knowledge frm attending and the vouchers frm the goodie bags?

Plus it's gonna be held at the classy arts house.

The chamber tu, it's the old parliament debate room eh?

Cool ah?....

Sign up for the event by purchasing the tix here?

CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR TICKETS !!!

Darling, click ok?
Only $50 for 2pax :D

Anyone else??

orchestra

SHE SAYS;

*beep*beep*

(my memory card's giving prob thus i have to live with the *beep*beep*)

checks phone n he smsed,

**Hello, sayang. How's your day?**

she replied,

**Ok, but tummy's seemed to have some form of performance,

an orchestra going on after I drank Nescafe**
(click sent!)

*beep*beep*
checks phone n he replied,
**Ha, nice way of putting it.

Don't let the stomach give an encore.

Took Medicine?**

she replied,

**after all the party tt goes on in e am, of all timing,

"they" decided to cool it off by going for a swim. :p

Ok now, feeling better! :)**

(click sent!)

That's all folks!!!
Good MORNING!!!

a lil something...

SHE SAYS;

So a few friends have dropped by and given their two cents and one's being linked.

HELLO HAMZEUS!!!
My friend of 8-9years living in Georgia, Atlanta, boasting abt the basement that
he's turning into an independent apartment unit with an indoor pool! :p

Well, he's not really boasting but merely "updating family and friends" of his
1500sq feet Home Improvement project. 1500 sq feet is = 139 sq meters.

WOW!
And this is just the basement!!

UNFORTUNATELY,
Due to land constraint in Singapore, on average,
I guess Singaporean are living in a 92 sq meters apartments/flats.
With an internal floor area of 90 sq meters.
And in local terms, we call these as what HDB states on their website,
a "Typical 4-room Flat".
I said on average coz most of the Built-To-Order(BTO) flats that are
coming up, are built around that size-range.

They don't come cheap either, but compared to resale,
they're supposed to be "cheap".

The latest "Typical 4-room Flat" BTO for January 2010,
Buangkok Vale-Hougang and Limbang Green - Choa Chu Kang
costs a whooping max $278,000.
And it's not a freehold of coz, it's on a 99year lease.

Genius people in the government. 'Nuff said!

The most expensive one was launched last mth called

SkyVille @ Dawson and SkyTerrace @ Dawson

with Internal Floor Area Range (sqm) of 103 - 105sq meters

@ an "Indicative Price Range" of $555,000 - $664,000!!!!!!!

That's more than half a mill for a 99year lease FLAT!

CRAZY!!!

After reading reports about the OVERWHELMING response to the flats offered;

1. 
   
   Overwhelming response to Sale of Balance Flats
   Source: ChannelNewsAsia
   Posted: 14 October 2009 1824 hrs
   
   
   
2. 
   
   Dawson estate Build-To-Order flats get overwhelming response
   Source: ChannelNewsAsia
   Posted: Thursday, December 17
   
   
   

WHY continue with the BTO?

There's more PRs coming in and snapping up resale flats like nobody's business,

the locals on the other hand, have to go thru the process of BTO and then wait
another approximately 4-5years before their home is ready.

As a consolation to the problem 'HDB said there will be more BTO projects in 2010.

It is prepared to launch at least one BTO project every month
IF there is a sustained demand for new flats.'

In the end, it all boils down to $$$$.
Let's say, MY DEAR BF decides to PROPOSE to me TOMORROW, :D
1st we've got to think of whether we've got money for

a. The wedding.

The average malay wedding under the 'void deck', yes,

the empty space under the flat, can costs between SGD$10k - $30k.

b. The love nest.
Do we need a flat within 6 months?

Then resale flat is the way to go.

IF we can afford to wait 3-5 years?

Apply for a new flat.

New flats are generally priced cheaper than current resale flats(about $50k less).
And since they're cheaper, there is no grants offered. :(
(who doesnt want free money?)

Say we go the resale way, we need to put down a deposit of up to $1k,

then the remaining down-payment of not more than
$4k before the two weeks is up.

Then we'd need to have the HLE before we put a deposit if not

we'll be unable to secure loan within the 14 days
and we'll lose the deposit...bla bla bla...

That's just the deposit, next there's the 20% downpayment for the house....arrghh!!!
NOT to forget the COV(Cash over valuations) that can easily be 8-25k upfront...
bwaaaa aaaaaaahhhhhhhh!!!!

MONEY MONEY MONEY!!!!!

No wonder Singaporeans are marrying at a later age.
Ok lar, Sayang, No Rush. :s
Let's queue for the BTO first, yes, before you even propose?....hmmmm???

Takkan berhenti rentak tariku.....

SHE SAYS;

Two awesome legendary artistes paired for
the first time in a concert singing their new song!!
A good start to 2010...this song, is dedicated to my Love :)

Hanya Semalam

Lagu : M.Nasir

Lirik : Siti Nurhaliza

Konsert Bagaikan Sakti, The Esplanade, Singapura
01.01.2010

M.Nasir :

Isi hatimu tiada siapa tahu

Jika ku intai mungkinkah bertemu

Biar saja ku baca hatimu

Kunci rasa dalam rindu

Siti Nurhaliza :

Andai kau bisa menelah hati ku

Kalau kau mampu meneka di kalbu

Tiap saat pasti rindu bertemu

Benarlah itu maksudku

M.Nasir & Siti Nurhaliza

La la la….la la la la la la…2x

Siti Nurhaliza :

Biarku dendang lagu untukmu

Pasti bersatu kasih berpadu

Tiap senyum dan tawamu itu

Buat hatiku berlagu

M.Nasir :

Isi hatimu tiada seorang tahu

Jika ku intai mungkinkah bertemu

Biar saja ku baca hatimu

Kunci rasa dalam rindu

M.Nasir :

Benar kau ku mahu

Benar kau ku perlu

Siti Nurhaliza :

Walau hanya saat ini

Aku kau temui

Namun kau terus abadi

M.Nasir & Siti Nurhaliza :

Semalam hanya semalam

Dapat diriku menghilangkan rindumu

Aku merindu pasti menunggu

Bila waktumu menghiburkan dirimu

Seperti alam tak pernah diam

Bagai suria akan berganti malam

Aku menunggu pasti menunggu

Bila waktuku menghiburkan dirimu

Takkan berhenti rentak tariku

M.Nasir & Siti Nurhaliza

La la la….la la la la la la…2x

Siti Nurhaliza :

Biarku dendang lagu untukmu

Pasti bersatu kasih berpadu

Tiap senyum dan tawamu itu

Buat hatiku berlagu

M.Nasir :

Isi hatimu tiada seorang tahu

Jika ku intai mungkinkah bertemu

Biar saja ku baca hatimu

Kunci rasa dalam rindu

M.Nasir :

Benar kau ku mahu

Benar kau kuperlu

Siti Nurhaliza :

Walau hanya saat ini

Aku kau temui

Namun kau terus abadi

M.Nasir & Siti Nurhaliza :

Semalam hanya semalam

Dapat diriku menghilangkan rindumu

Aku merindu pasti menunggu

Bila waktumu menghiburkan dirimu

Seperti alam tak pernah diam
Bagai suria akan berganti malam

Aku menunggu pasti menunggu

Bila waktuku menghiburkan dirimu

Takkan berhenti rentak tariku

M.Nasir :

Takkan berhenti rentak tariku…

First day at work...

HE SAYS;

All too soon, it's the first day of work. While at the same time it's exciting to go back into the fray, there's also the feeling of reluctance after such nice long holidays. Sigh. BUT, I cannot think like a slacker! Just like Atom Ant said, "Up and at 'em! ATOM ANT!"

Right now I feel like an ant. A worker ant. A tiny, minisucle organism in a vast complex machine that cares not one whit of its organs and parts and cells. Actually, no, lah, I'm exaggerating, but I am feeling like an ant, doing the same drudgery of work. I realised, to no small astonishment, that I have mastered my tasks to the point of robotic sub-consciousness; it doesn't take as long to finish the tasks as it used to.

That's good news for me. This means that I can dedicate my time to my sayang in helping her in her projects and also concentrate on our plans for this year. Workwise, I know what I have to do to grow as an employee and I hope those dreams come to fruition, but in the meantime, I will focus on both of us, while I still have the time.

Goodie, goodie gum drops on the sudden availablity to goof off....er, I mean time, to do more important stuff. Of course, what! What do you think I'm doing now, writing all this? Heh heh....

It's the New Year, chum.

HE SAYS;

A quiet start to the new year, in my opinion. And unlike previous times, I spent the time with her just walking around in quiet streets and talking to people who still had their shops open on New Year's Eve. We decided to avoid the throng of humanity that was doubtless clogging the narrow streets of downtown and the city, and we ended up walking along the little roads and lorongs of private residential estates, kinda like we were exploring or something.

It was a very nice thing to do, as we just stopped to speak to a few people (and it happened so naturally!) which was so unlike us. In fact, I think it's so unlike most Singaporeans, but I digress. It was good to be away from all the hubbub and just be with each other under a starry sky, breathing in the cool wind and being out in the wide wide open. So refreshing.

We gazed at each other at the stroke of midnight. I wondered what the new year would bring. But I steeled myself to embrace everything that is to come. What can I be if I am not strong enough to face challenges? And who better to do it with, than my Sayang.

Dear, we will look to the future, holding hands. As Thomas Paine once said, "If we do not hang together, we shall surely hang separately."

:-)

rush...

HE SAYS;

I’m rushing to write this because I got WAY over my head and am doing too much work in too little time. Significant other is not pleased. But I’m trying to make it up to her, by letting her know I’m ok and asking what she’s doing and all that. She’s being a great sport actually; she’s being really patient with me regarding my work. It will be a challenge in the future if I was working a job that required a great deal of my time and effort, which will mean that I may not always be around at home for her and the kids.

Work is a necessity but it can get in the way of relationships, sometimes. I feel that if I don’t strive hard now, it will be much more difficult in the future and we won’t be better off. She says I should be able to juggle all my responsibilities, no matter how hard it will be. But we both know that we must support each other, and not get in the way and cause problems, for the good of the whole family.

I am going to complete my work as efficiently as possible. Work will not be an excuse for neglecting my family; nothing is a good excuse for that. She supports me a lot and I will always treasure that about her. So, if you’re reading this, thank you, sayang.

Oops, boss is here. Gotta go.



ps. It's new year's eve...haha..Just in case, HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!!